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Forgiveness is a gift, it definitely is.

I realised it's hard for me to forgive people, really really hard. I don't know how God does it, I don't know how I did it to some people even though they have hurt me for quite a number of times. (maybe I don't love them that much, who knows?)

Firstly, it's for a person who wanted to slap me in the face because of the 'annoyance' of mine asking him to stop smoking. If I were only trying to bug him around because of MY HAPPINESS, I wouldn't even try my very best to even say out a single word. This is a person who doesn't do what he has promised me. He continues on doing what he thinks he's right. What can I say when he gets so annoyed of what I think it's the best for him? I can't do anything, right? Furthermore I don't want him to think I SUPPORT him for doing so. I washed dishes for him and told him to wash them by himself because I said how my mom is doing everything for us but he asked me to shut up. Oh right, I'm not a perfect human, what can I do when things happened this way?

To forgive is not as easy as you think, my friend. It's not that this is happening to you.

This another person who SHOULD be responsible for what he has done, has never shown what should be showing to his 'beloved'. He's the most irresponsible person I've ever known. How he told me he loves me and all, are only sayings that never will be shown in action. What he does is only to hurt. His immaturity is amazing. All he can say to me is only sorry, but what did he do after he said that? Nothing. He continued on what he's doing, he knows he's wrong but he still continues it. Not only that he's hurting his beloved, he's hurting himself too. Amazing, I'm very impressed by however and whatever and whichever way he thinks. It's really OUT OF BOX.

Just don't guess blindly, people. You'll never know what has been happening in my life. Everyone has their own stories who they don't wanna share. I feel so lonely and depressed that I've to only keep these to myself because no one can help me, only God can.

I've to even cry soundlessly in the toilet with the water flowing so that no one can hear me crying, isn't it sad?

Okay though all this really sounded emotional but I know I'm going to be okay. It's just another boring lame post that no one will understand. Please tell me what can I do to forgive these two persons that I have always wanted to forgive, but it's just too tough.

I know I can do it by loving, it's still hard. I'll try my best even though I may have mental breakdown someday, but God will always be there for me.

KthankBye.

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