I found something related to my topic today. Hmm, yeah, maybe you guessed it correctly after you had a look at the pictures, but no rewards for you, I'm sorry. It's parents. So, we all learn about respecting, loving, understanding & lots more positive moral values when we're with our parents from every religion, moral text books, like what teachers told us, If they weren't exist, then we won't be able to live in this world. Yes, that's hundred percent true! I didn't say that wasn't true, at least you know I'm awake now.
Actually, this is dedicated to my cousin, since she feels sad because of this. Hmm, & I had experienced the same thing, but I'm not that close to that guy, so I don't actually really care if my mom doesn't allow me to talk to him anymore, but I did cry because of that many times, I mean I cared, but since this is what she doesn't allow, & I don't even close to him, I would rather choose my mom, it's better, right?Hmm, yes, parents are like that, I mean, some parents are like that. Err, based on what they experienced, or what they had been seen ages ago, there's some raped, abused, kidnapped by evils(bad guys) cases, or whatever, this world is no longer safe anymore. It's all Francis Light's fault larr! Why on Earth should he taught us to use tipu helah way to treat people just for his own good?! Hmm, I can't actually blame him, that was just to show us how Malaysia went through all those unsolvable matters & get to know all those pemimpin yang beribawa, & maybe to show how bersatu padu Malaysians are, that's it!
Besides that, go back to my topic, these days, a lot of liars slack in this world. They would do whatever you unexpected just to rape you or kill you, that's why I said, this world is evil! We can't believe anyone else except your family and yourself. Sometimes, even your family members would lie at you or betray you for something, so we have to trust ourselves, be independent, all the time. Although I'm not independent, at all. So, I'm pretty agree to let my child to go anywhere like I always go to Edwina's house alone for quite long, next time, that's the way my mom helps me to be an independent kid. (: But I actually feel good when she gives me freedom, at all time, I mean, not actually all. Just a few times. Like at least I can go out with my girl friends, not with boy. Never alone with boys, I know, that's safer for every single girl on Earth, even, maybe he's your boyfriend, close boy friend, better don't go out alone with them, something bad might happen, but, if you trust him, I have no idea..
We have to know, what parents did to us, are because they love us & it's for our own good. But overprotective isn't good. My school counselor, I mentioned her in my blog before, she told my friend:" Secondary students desperate for coupling are normal..." & I don't even have a relationship right now! So did her? No, parents would easily misunderstand whenever you talk to a guy, just because you both are a bit closer, if they knew it, they wont let you talk to them.. So, we can only choose to listen to them, & do what as they say. They want us to keep secrets from them, because if you continue what you shouldn't do, you'll keep secret from them for sure!! Right? Because we could sense that they'll scold us one day
again. So, how can we react? Listen to them, again. & they are smart! They'll use some of our weaknesses to scare us.
Edwina, I think your mom is overprotective, hmm, but it's also good for you, don't be sad anymore, smile (: But I have to tell you something, he's still your friend! Although your mom asked you not to contact him anymore, but after uni & college, after you finish your studies, you can meet him! Is not like, he's your enemy, you hate him, It's your choice. Being friendly isn't wrong, but since your mom acted like that, you can't ignore it. After uni & college, if you still like him, you can go to him! You don't have to forget him! He's part of your life, right? He's your ex-classmate. Just think like that. Don't have to forget him, but, just keep away from him. Or if you can't, write out your feeling onto your blog. You will feel better. You can set your blog as private, you have your own privacy.. If you're sad, watch Toy Story 3! It's freaking funny, but sad behind. :'( I cried, again..
Smile smile smile (:
I miss you. 23rd June, please remember that, you dumb dumb!! (:
hmm, for those who don't know what I'm saying, that's my dad's birthday, & my special day.. Tee hee. Secret. (:
Sunday - Father's Day!!
I'm going to Church and help the kids!!
But but but... :) My father's birthday is around the corner also. Two is better than one. lol, :) I'll make the card 2 in 1. (: (:
Church or Youth next Sunday? :O